A few weeks ago Angela and I thought it would be SO fun if we could go to Time Out For Women together...but it was one of those things that we just talked about...me going and spending a few days with her and driving to Huston for TOFW...shopping, eating, crafting, hanging out. Well...we are both lucky enough to have awesome husbands* who thought it would be a good idea too! I agonized over flights...tried to decided how long I could be gone...how long Brandon could be away for work etc. etc.....and then finally I booked my flights and bought my TOFW ticket! At the time March 11th felt SO far away!!!! But! Here it is! I am leaving tomorrow and I have YET to pack!
I just gotta say how lucky I feel I am to be able to go on a TIME OUT! All moms need them. We have all said, or thought to ourselves "I wish I could get away for a few days..." (if you haven't then...good for you!) I know I get overwhelmed, feel like I am not good enough, tired, stressed, burnt out...you name it. I have no desire to put of a facade that I am super mom who can do everything...because I can't. I just try my best and count my blessings everyday!
...And here I sit, contemplating this wonderful trip ahead of me and I can't help but feel guilty and undeserving of it! My mom is the first to tell me, "I never got a break with you kids" and that makes me feel like I should be able to do this (be mom/wife) without needing a TIME OUT! But you know what! I don't care! I am going to have a great time and when I come back my husband and kids will be so happy to see me and I will have missed them SO much that I wont get annoyed or frustrated with anyone...(for at least a week!) LOL!
...and if anyone sees my kids looking less that presentable in public these next few days...just remember...appearance isn't everything!
(* Yes, I think that my hubby is fantastically supportive (I need to be more like him)...but that doesn't mean that if other husbands are not willing to watch the kids for 5 days while their wife goes on TIME OUT, then they aren't amazing too! We all have different needs and expectations.*)
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5 comments:
Have fun!! You lucky girl!
Man, I need a time out big time!! Have a blast mama...you deserve it!
You are awesome--and you totally deserve a time out!! Good for you!!
I hope you're having an awesome time!! I hope you find the day to be inspiring and rewarding! Love ya!!
I think you are one of the luckiest girls around! have a BLAST!
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